This is less of a story and more of a question: who else enjoys masturbation as much as or more than sex? After all, masturbation is sex with someone I love. But seriously, I know my body better than anybody and I feel weird giving overly specific directions to one night stands or even long term SOs. It's easier for me to simply take the reigns. They can watch but I like to drive, know what I mean? How many of ya'll feel this way and how do you broach the subject with the person your sleeping with without coming across like an anal retentive tool?